I don’t know about you, but I hate conflict. I go out of my way to avoid it. I know that is not always a good thing. Sometimes you have to confront things head on for the good of all concerned.
The scripture readings today give us advice on how to handle conflict. The toughest conflict is that which happens within a family.
I can tell you from experience of being a police chaplain, the calls that the cops dread the most are family disturbances. For some reason, conflict between close family members can turn violent very quickly, and the cops have to barge right into the middle of it, and try to diffuse it. Continue reading
My time at Camp Crucis recently reminded me of my days as a Boy Scout. My old friend, Fr. Moseley, or Father Salt as I like to call him, was a fellow Scout, and we went on many camp-outs together. We learned many things about camping. We learned to prepare our gear, shop for food, prepare meals, and best of all we learned how to put up tents and set up camp.
It was fun, too! Part of the fun was finding the best place to set up camp. We would hike for hours it seems to get a far away from civilization as possible. There were no distractions, no cell phone, no internet. Our idea of networking was putting our heads together to identify the flora and fauna.
I love to still love to camp out, but my idea of roughing it has changed somewhat since the Scouting days. Now my idea of roughing it is a hotel room without a coffee maker. Continue reading
“You are not in the flesh; you are in the Spirit, since the Spirit of God dwells in you.” Romans 8:9
When I woke up this morning, my back and my knees reminded me that I am still in the flesh.
There are several interpretations of St. Paul’s teaching about the flesh. Some focus on the temptations of the flesh, as in every conceivable thing that he teaches against.
He lists them in the letter to the Galatians, chapter 5
“Now the works of the flesh are plain: fornication, impurity, licentiousness, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, anger, selfishness, dissension, party spirit, envy, drunkenness, carousing, and the like. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.” Continue reading
This past week Laurie and I were at Camp Crucis for the Confetti conference. And for added fun we had our grandson Wyatt with us! Confetti is a multi-age conference for K through 5th grade, and there had to be over a hundred fifty kids there. A fellow priest that I have known since we were boy scouts and I served as the spiritual directors for the week. We taught two sessions each day, one for the younger group and the other for the older ones.
My friend, Fr. Moseley has a lot of gray curly hair, so I introduced him as Fr. Salt, and myself as Fr. Pepper. It was one of those moments of divine inspiration. I knew they would remember our names at least! Continue reading
This Sunday we have heard a group of parables about the kingdom of heaven. The last two Sundays we heard about the sowers of seeds, and how the word will be heard by many, and accepted by few.
This was something new to the Jews, who frankly did not know much about the heavenly realm. They were more worried about earthly realms, and the kingdom of Israel in particular.
The Jews to whom Jesus was speaking knew something about kingdoms. Since the first king Saul had united the tribes of Israel into a united Monarchy, the kingdom of Israel was a historical certainty. Along with kingdom was a constant theme of battle. Continue reading